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Sure, we had fights, but the overall theme of our household was excitement over the fact that we got to live with, laugh with and love our best friend in the world–for the rest of our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\nI sometimes think about what this pandemic might have looked like for us if it had happened back then. Two starry-eyed lovers forced by the government to stay indoors and even work from home together. I can see our two work laptops set up as close as possible next to each other on the dining room table each day. I can imagine the lack of productivity. <\/p>\n\n\n\nI can see a poster on our kitchen wall with tally marks of who was winning our ongoing, pandemic-long Settlers of Catan tournament. I can imagine myself counting the number of tally marks on my side of the poster with just one hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\nI can see our Google spreadsheet of all the TV shows and movies we watched over the last year based on friends’ recommendations and various must-watch lists we found online. 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It’s been exhausting by any metric you can think to measure–emotionally, physically, mentally, creatively, relationally, maritally. Parentally.<\/p>\n\n\n\nI’m under no illusions that our honeymoon phase would have remained forever or even endured the constant cohabiting proximity of a global pandemic. But I do think that becoming parents so quickly and so many times over has taught us a lot about the evolving nature of marital love in a short period of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\nEven though the basic tenets of Catholic marriage vows and every parenting book in the world instruct you to do the opposite, there’s no way around it: When you have kids, there is an automatic diminishing of your relationship with your partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThey tell you that your heart will grow three sizes that day every time you have another kid, but they neglect to mention that the blood pressure goes up, too. And having the biggest heart in the world doesn’t add more hours to the day or increase the swiftly closing window of time you have to spend with your spouse, much less the amount of time you spend together when you both feel awake and vaguely human.<\/p>\n\n\n\nLove on the weekend? That song has become a dream to me of a time that I can barely remember. But, man, do I love to try. And fortunately for us, the echoes are still there.<\/p>\n\n\n\nThe aftershocks of that all-encompassing, obsessive love that we shared at the outset of our marriage are what hold us together in these years of leaner love–when our attention is turned rightfully outward to the helpless little humans we brought to this pandemic-plagued earth.<\/p>\n\n\n\nIn these times, love is a struggle–and we show our love by struggling for one another. Selfies have given way to selflessness. Rather than spending a lot of quality time together, we are more often spotting each other quality time to spend by ourselves–so I can run on the treadmill uninterrupted after I finish work for the day or Theresa can sleep in on weekend mornings since she’s had all three kids largely on her own all week. That’s the best kind of love on the weekend that I can give her right now.<\/p>\n\n\n\nHopefully readers of this post are savvy enough to know that we both take great joy in this stage of life<\/span><a href='https:\/\/www.dadhasablog.com\/love-on-the-weekend\/#easy-footnote-bottom-3-1266' title='and this blog has the sickeningly sweet ruminations to prove it'>3<\/sup><\/a><\/span> but there’s something about the arrival of Valentine’s Day this particular year at this particular time that is making me gag at the “traditional” images of hearts and candy even more than I did when I thought I was going to be single forever.<\/span><a href='https:\/\/www.dadhasablog.com\/love-on-the-weekend\/#easy-footnote-bottom-4-1266' title='basically my entire 20s'>4<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\nOur lives are not easy right now, and there’s no point in pretending that they are on Valentine’s Day. The fact remains, however, that our love for one another is what helps get us out of bed each day. 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